Alexis T - Post Session

Hey ladies!!

Here’s my story from joining the group to today🙂

I’ve been a group lurker for almost 3 years. I had been wanting to do a boudie session for a long time. My husband was always saying he was just going to set it up and drop me off at the studio. When I joined the group, I still saw this overweight useless caged being with tattered wings that never does anything right and everyone was always judging everything I did every second of the day due to my past traumas of childhood and dating a few not so great people. In 2021 I started a healing journey. I lost right at 80 lbs over a two year span. I started healing the childhood trauma, and the abuse from past boyfriends and past friends. I started to see lil pieces of me surfacing and started loving me a lil but I still just felt like and saw in the mirror just a shell of a person.

Debbie did a special deal/promotion like she seems to always do (start taking advantage of these sales and deals ladies) and I got picked for it! I was shocked I dont get picked for anything! Told my husband and he said go go go we will make the money happen. (That was my excuse- we don’t have the cash and I give all to my kids first never doing anything for me)

So when Debbie called and we talked, she told me all these options I didn’t know existed and she helped me plan out how I could afford to pay for my package. (Y’all call Debbie cause you can’t use cash as an excuse after talking to her- invest in yourself!!) we set my session up on the last day of the calendar she had open so I could start putting money aside and start shopping and hunting for lingerie. (Something I hadn’t shopped for in years)

2 weeks before my shoot I requested a boudie closet consultation. I was nervous about being half naked in front of anyone but my husband at this time. I didn’t know how I was gonna do it. I hated myself for so long and still couldn’t see anyone other than the damaged self. I was feeling awkwardly nervous about it all.

Meeting Debbie and seeing the studio and the closet totally loosened up 90% of nerves I had. Debbie has this personality that just draws you in!! She talks to you like you have known each other for years. She’s so inviting and warm.

Then my day came! I was so excited with a lil bit of nerves. I got there early by accident due to excitement and Debbie and I just hung out and chit chatted until Telly got there.

We laughed and chatted while Telly worked her magic! And can I tell y’all she works some magic with hair and make up without making you look like an entirely different person. I didn’t know I looked like that. I started seeing what my husband and others see.

Then the session started. I had so much fun laughing and following Debbie’s directions (point your toes, arch more, slide this leg over here look up look down close your eyes open your eyes, more booty out) and loosing balance in those dang heels I tried with the wings!

Oh! I chose the wings set because I treated this session as my transition, my break out of the cage id been in for more than 10 years, treated my session as showing my beautiful wings and flying on my own for the first time in my 40 years.

When my session was over I felt empowered, confident, like my own person! I didn’t want it to end! (Hence the reason I’m already dreaming of my next session)

I’ve been more confident since Nov 30. I don’t feel like I’m faking or masking anymore. I am me, like me or leave me it doesn’t matter to me anymore. Others dont give me my worth.

The reveal… the reveal is the best. Debbie shows you shots on the camera during the session but the reveal is the best part.

I cried, I didn’t know I could look like that, I didn’t know that’s what my husband sees in me and tries to tell me and show me all the time, I was in shock and happy and can’t explain all the feelings coming over me! I was sitting there saying “no way that’s not me, omg that is me”

Debbie captured Alexis. Not wife not mom not sister not friend not care taker not all the hats I wear. She captured the healed me the real me. She captured ME in all my beautiful sexy confident glory!

If you are on the fence, jump. Debbie has so many deals right now you have no excuse anymore! Get with Debbie, have that phone call set that date!!! You will not regret it!!

I feel everyone should go to Debbie at least once!! Promise you’ll wanna go over n over after that first one.

I recommend everyone doing a session just so you can feel you and celebrate YOU! That’s exactly what Debbie does for you- she celebrates you the entire time you are there and even after! She is all about empowerment and she’s a pro!

Debbie showed me parts of me I never looked at as beautiful and now I look in the mirror everyday like Dayum Lex you are Fire!

This is really an investment in yourself you should make!!!

Make the call and become an official #AllureBabe

you WILL NOT regret the decision to invest in you!

💚💜💛